Exploring the Existential Question: Should We Fear Death?

 

Lately, I've come across several discussions around the fear of death, something many of us share. I, too, have struggled with this fear, but as I've grown, I felt a deep calling to share what has helped me find peace—and perhaps, help alleviate that fear for others.

For years, death was a source of intense fear for me. A lot of this fear stemmed from religious trauma. I remember, as a young child, being told by my father—who was mostly absent but would sometimes be around—that I was going to hell simply for listening to the band KISS at the age of 7. I also carried a general fear of the unknown, the uncertainty of what happens after we pass.

Like many of you, I've experienced the loss of loved ones. But it wasn’t until I lost my mother that grief hit me harder than I could have ever imagined. It sent me spiraling into a deep depression. During this time, I also lost my aunt and two cousins—each loss adding to the weight of my sorrow. I found myself in a dark hole, unsure of how to climb out. I had previously been in therapy, but at that moment, seeking help didn’t feel like an option for me.

One day, as I was watching TV, someone mentioned Reiki, and I was immediately intrigued. I had never heard of it before, so I started researching. Long story short, Reiki became the catalyst for my spiritual awakening. It not only brought me back to life, but it also opened me up to healing energies, including working with the Angels. Through meditation, I realized that Archangel Azrael is one of my guardian angels. Though many know him as the Angel of Death, I prefer to think of him as the Angel of Transition. He is not the grim, hooded figure often portrayed. In fact, his energy is absolutely beautiful—one of the most caring and loving energies I’ve ever encountered.

Azrael’s presence in my life has shifted my understanding of death completely. He reminded me that fear of death, while normal, is not necessary. "You are never alone," he told me. "Angels and your ancestors surround you, just as they do at your birth—both are truly joyous occasions. The earthly death is merely a transition from one plane to another, much like walking through a door. It is a sacred and necessary event for the growth of your soul. Do not fear the 'punishment of hell,' for it does not exist. When you transition, you will feel a great relief, like coming home, or like a child running into the arms of a loving parent. Those who have gone before you will be there to greet you. And I will be there as well, to assist you through the transition. You will never be alone."

While no one can say for certain what happens after we leave this world, I truly believe that we continue on in light and love. My hope is that this message helps ease any fears you may have surrounding death. Please feel free to leave a comment with your own experiences or questions—I'd love to hear from you!